Are you a star performer? šā£
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You know, the one who believes that you have to prove your worth before collecting the accolades...ā£
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The one who carries a deep insecurity that someone out there is discrediting the efforts you have been putting into your work...ā£
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The one who cannot receive help without feeling awful or bad about it...ā£
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And then has to go all out to give tenfold the amount of help given...ā£
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The one who needs to earn love because you believe love that is earned is here to stay, nothing else...ā£
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If you are, I am sending you so much love and compassion. ā£
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You see, I was you. ā£
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These shrapnel and shards of metal armour you have put together around you as a shield when your love, your joy, and your happiness were not received or reciprocated in the way you expected.ā£
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When your wide open heart was shunned and thrown away with reckless abandon.ā£
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š When love was not given to you, you found a way to survive and earn it, by perhaps, becoming a perfect version of yourself: thinner, more hardworking, more this, more that ļ¼ā£
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All the while pushing help away: "I can do this on my own. I am fine. I don't need your help."ā£
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That is a coping mechanism to overperform and look "strong" and "capable" to the world.ā£
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But what makes one truly strong and capable, is the ability to be vulnerable.ā£
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š To say "Yes, please help me. I can't do this alone."ā£
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š To build bridges with hearts and allow love to come in ļ¼ to allow yourself to receive love and abundance and Soulful support.ā£
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And you CAN shed because the beliefs are and have never been yours.ā£
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The choice is yours. šā£
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š§āāļø I share my story because I truly believe I am not alone ļ¼ that my restrictive eating behaviour and paranoia and pain are also felt by many others who are struggling silently out there. ā£
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š I truly believe someone, somewhere, needs to hear this: you are not alone. ā£
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š If you reach out, I've got you. šā£
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š I invite you discover how we can work together to take you from endless dieting, starving and bingeing, shame and guilt, once and for all to ā„ļø Reconnecting to your highest self-worthā£
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šš DM me and let's chat š§š»āāļøšā£
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