When I first started to get back into dating again after a couple of years sitting on the sidelines, I was going in with the idea that I had to perfect myself for the other to see how good of a catch I was.
All I got were men who wanted nothing long-term － and that did not meet my standards.
Eventually I got so fed up and done with this dating scene. I no longer wanted to play at that frequency.
I turned to truly asking myself, what do I want to manifest in my relationships? Who is this person I am actually calling in to have a relationship with me forever?
I made a decision to put myself first and do things for me, not for how I can look better to others.
A few weeks in, I met the man who would be my husband.
Now, I live by this lesson. In my sacred work and how I lead and mentor, I am always looking into how I can lead by going first, not by looking to others to give me permission to how or when.
How I can continue embodying limitless flow and change.
I meet my Dark Goddess and gain deeper insights into my emotions because this continues to expand my context for emotional mastery.
I anchor in the truth of who I am, to hold the tension between being and becoming, so that I hold a higher level of leadership in cosmic super consciousness and human beingness.
I am unlearning to learn anew because that's when I consciously choose to stop comparing and competing, and bring more women together to rise collectively. Trust me, it is way more fun than killing each other on the way to the top.
I own up to the darkness whenever they are coming into feeling for me to see it and love into it.
I light the Way for my clients by breaking down the scaffolding of illusory security. My wish for you is that you can take my lessons with you to build your own magical empire.
I am not a teacher who teaches what she intellectually memorised.
My cup is never full. I am ready to go to the end of the world and ask, "How can I remember my wholeness?" And then calibrate endlessly.
And this is how it feels like to work with plant medicine spirit, a great ally to truly embody this great vortex of stillness.
I don't know about you but I am done with feeling embarrassed about claiming IT ALL.
I don't just want to think about it.
I don't want to see another dream biting the dust.
I want to be it all － and I am staking a claim.
For whoever needs to hear this: don't give up. You dreamt this dream because it is yours to create. Lead yourself into creation. Choose YOU. You are not alone.
If you feel called, share it with someone who can feel this!
Be you, be free, it's all available for you, 💋