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When We Cannot Control Others

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I say this a lot and I know it is a hard one to swallow because there is a collective movement against this, but here it is: ⁣⁣

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❌ We cannot control anyone for how they act and what they say. ⁣⁣

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🎋 We have to become masters of our own fate.⁣⁣

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It doesn't mean not standing our ground.⁣⁣

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It means we have to draw our own boundaries.⁣⁣

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It means we do not judge anyone for their own fears and stories.⁣⁣

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❌ "That is wrong." ❌ "This is bad." ⁣⁣

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Whatever that triggers you from the outside is always a reflection. ⁣⁣

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A reflection of what lesson needs to be learnt and integrated; things you have been fighting or avoiding within you.⁣⁣

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As long as you do not turn inward to look within, you will continue to relapse because you have not looked at your own pain.⁣⁣

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Unresolved emotions and karmic ties lock our hearts down, with keys thrown away. 🔑⁣⁣

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Not being able to forgive is a form of self-abandonment.⁣⁣

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It eats away from inside out.⁣⁣

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Forgetting is not forgiving.⁣⁣

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In fact the subconscious always has a way of storing the past away in our bodies.⁣⁣

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It may surface as a pain body. ⁣⁣

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Or it may surface as an ailment, an addiction, a disorder.⁣⁣

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The memory is reflected in our physiology.⁣⁣

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Our body keeps score.⁣⁣

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I want you to know that I say this with utmost compassion. There is no shame in admitting that.⁣⁣

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🌟 Every part of you is magnificent. ⁣⁣

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The truth is, most of this is not even coming from the outside. It comes from the critical voice inside of you that keeps you fragmented, framed inside your head.⁣⁣

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👉🏻 Get this: The feeling tone body receives billions of feelings every millisecond.⁣⁣

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🤯 The mind has less than ten. ⁣⁣

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🌧 The mind is stabilised upon limiting beliefs that we picked up from external sources. ⁣⁣

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🧜‍♀️ The body is a gateway to our true magnificence. ⁣⁣

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We cannot choose which emotions to embrace or feel.⁣⁣

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What we can choose is to see that every emotion is happening in our highest favour.⁣⁣

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