Signs Of Coping

🕯 Whenever things in my life feel like it is going through a major transformational period, I notice my tendency to reach for control as I swim in this deep unknown through controlling my body. ⁣ ⁣ The difference between now and the 10 years when I was struggling with anorexia and relapses with chronic eating disorders and dieting, is that I am able to see how I use this as my coping mechanism and means to avoid feeling the feelings that need to be felt. 🌊⁣ ⁣ I understand it is there to make me feel better in a temporary instance when I feel fear, an armour to put on when my presence is needed to summon the courage to keep moving forward. ⁣ ⁣ 👉🏻 All of us have that coping mechanism. ⁣ ⁣ Inside that armour is an inner child who needs to be called forth, who needs to be seen and held.⁣ ⁣ 🌕 Feeling what needs to be felt can cut short all your self-sabotaging patterns. ⁣ ⁣ If you can't believe that anyone would pay you handsomely for your work, then no one will.⁣ ⁣ If you can't believe someone would love you, then no one will.⁣ ⁣ You will keep allowing sabotage. You will keep allowing belittlement and abuse, scarcity and fear. ⁣ ⁣ If you want to help and heal others, it is your responsibility to clear your karma and create a crystalline container. 💎⁣ ⁣ You want to transmute energy rather than throw it off elsewhere.⁣ ⁣ Your energy's vibrational frequency determines what shows up in your life.⁣ ⁣ 🧝🏻‍♀️ When you are super intentional about cultivating the energetic space you want to hold for your work and relationships, everyone else will feel it too. There is no doubt about it.⁣ ⁣ Think of all the iconic figures. Everything you admire about them is intentional energy cultivation. It is their sacred invitation to you to come into THEIR space.⁣ ⁣ 👑 They don't inject doubt in their space. They are in the zone of genius.⁣ ⁣ So I am committed to this work for eternity because you bet I bring my A-game as I hold space to allow the divine to flow through me. ⁣ ⁣ 💎 Creating the life you are born to have, rising to your divine riches and doing what you love unapologetically comes down to owning your self-worth and showing up fully as your authentic divine self. 🧝🏻‍♀️⁣ ⁣ Everyday, thousands of people are buying into quick fixes thinking that all they need is to follow someone else's path to success to get to where they desire to be.⁣ ⁣ 🙈 The blindspot that rarely gets mentioned is: even if you do get an all-access pass to the mightiest secrets, you will keep yo-yoing back and forth from scarcity to abundance － 🧜‍♀️ until you fully claim your self-worth back and awaken deep self-love ♥ so you never abandon yourself and your dreams ever again; 🔥 so you give the shove to comparisonitis and impostor syndrome for good. 💥⁣ ⁣ "Oh, LiYing, but that is so selfish and big of me!"⁣ ⁣ Listen, Goddess, you're claiming your truth and power back from the patriarchy. It has always been yours. You are owning it with reverence. You are coming into harmony with your own presence and the unlimited abundance that is available for you now. ⁣ ⁣ Yes, now!⁣ ⁣ 🌠 And as you fill your own cup you can serve with love and power. 🕊⁣ ⁣ Whether you work with me now or never, you will never tap into inner peace if you don't get this.⁣ ⁣ I've got you, Goddess. ⁣ ⁣ 👩‍🎤 Clear the fear, pain, and drama around what the eff you’re meant to be doing with your precious life and get a clear roadmap on who you are, why you’re here, and what you’re meant to be doing. ⁣🌟⁣ ⁣ 👑 I invite you to book in a free Heart-to-Heart chat with me ☎️ to map out your divine transformation today. ✨ ⁣ ⁣ 💖 LINK IN BIO⁣ ⁣ BOOK IN HERE 📲 https://go.oncehub.com/ASpaceToBeFree⁣ ⁣ 🌠 If you're sitting on the edge of working with me, I have a gift for you. ⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ .⁣ ⁣ 🐚 Join the divine sisterhood in The Siren Goddess Collective: Awaken Deep Divine Self-Love to receive resources to work with your energy, spirit and plant allies to flourish and prosper in your most beautiful life. 🧜‍♀️ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ·.·⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ To Falling Deeply In Love With Yourself, ♥⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ LiYing🎐⁣⁣